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2009-11-03 issue:

Missed the invitation

by Walt Friesen, Hesston, Kan.

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Thanks for "Dangers of Dialogue" (Sept. 15). I regret that I did not respond to the June 2 column "The Meanings of Dialogue" written by Jim Schrag and cited in the editorial. I prejudged his intentions and missed the invitation.
How we use word choices results in monumental differences, as James in the Bible also attests. In the case of Jim Schrag, I apparently worded my choice as, A, Jim trying to avoid harmful confrontation by placating people on the right and left, and, B, Jim urging hopeful new rules for engagement.

Because I have felt that my thoughts during the troublesome merger talks had been dismissed without due consideration, I now prejudged Jim's words and wrongly chose A and "acted out" my indifference. Alas. I apologize to Jim and the church.

Editor's note: In the Nov. 17 issue we will conclude Readers Say responses to our Sept. 15 request for counsel. Please see the editorial on page 31.


Associated Issue: Out of the rocking chair - Sept. 15, 2009

Associated Article: The dangers of dialogue

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